英语翻译原文：In our daily life ,there are many occasions on which

英语翻译
原文：In our daily life ,there are many occasions on which we should not hesitate to say "no"when asked for help.for one thing ,when we are not able to offer help ,we should give others a direct reply "no".for another ,when the thing we are asked fro is unreasonable or even illegal,we should also say "no"to the requirer.However ,it is not the case in our real life .many people prefer to say "yes"when they should say "no".on the one hand ,they are afraid to lose their own face .since they think refusal means their inability .on the other hand,they are afraid to offend their acquaintances" face ,suck as their friends ,relatives and so on .In fact ,there are disadvantages in doing so ,at fist ,they are not ableenough or willing enough to do the thing for others .therefore ,the thing can not be accomplished well .in the end they may lose both their acquaintances" belief and their own faces.When someone makes a suggestion offers somthing or asks you to do somthing for them,we will say no if we don't want to do or we have no time to do.But some people hesitate to say no .Because they think it's rude to refuse other's offers.They don't want to hurt others.In addition,they like to be needed and useful.They want someone cannot make it without them.However,ther are some disadvantages.Fisrt,it will take up too much time.You will feel tired.Second ,you are not honest to your friends and your family.You don't tell them your real feeling.Third,you lose yourself because you always do things for others which you don't want to do.So sometimes you need to say no when someone asks you to do something for them.Notice say "thank you" before refuse the offer.

在我们的日常生活中,在很多场合我们应该毫不犹豫地说“不”的时候,要求帮助的一件事,当我们不想帮忙,我们应该给别人一个直接回答“没有”.另一方面,当我们被请求帮助是不合理的或者甚至是非法的,我们应该说“不”的requirer.然而,这不是在我们的现实生活中.很多人喜欢说“是的”的时候不说“不”.另一方面,他们害怕失去自己的脸.因为他们认为拒绝意味着他们的无能.另一方面,他们害怕得罪他们的熟人”的脸,吸吮他们的朋友,亲戚等.事实上,有缺点,这样,在第一,他们不ableenough或愿意为别人做的事情.因此,这件事是不可能完成的好.最终他们可能会失去他们的熟人”的信念和他们自己的脸.当有人提供一些建议或要求你做的事情对他们来说,我们说,如果我们不想做,我们没有时间做.但有些人犹豫说不.因为他们认为这是不礼貌的拒绝别人提供的.他们不想伤害别人.此外,他们喜欢是必要的和有用的.他们希望有人不能没有他们.然而,有许多缺点.第一,它会占用太多的时间.你会感觉很累.第二,你不诚实,你的朋友和你的家庭.你不要告诉他们你的真实感受.第三,你迷失了自己,因为你总是为他人做的事情你不想做的事情.所以有时你需要说不的时候别人问你能为他们做点什么.通知说“谢谢你”之前,拒绝