A Respond to "Ending a Relationship"

A Respond to "Ending a Relationship"
The article "Ending a Relationship," by De Vito,Joseph A is about the strategies of how to end a relationship positive,and to avoid behaving negatively,and also is related to the consequence after breaking relationship.There are lots of methods on ending a relationship with someone.One of them is called" Break the Loneliness-Depression Cycle," which is a normal phenomena in which people usually get in trouble with loneliness and depression after breaking a relationship with someone,it is danger until a person suffer from loneness and depression for a long period time.When depression goes deep,it is required to get help from outside.The other one is called" Remove or Uncomfortable Symbols," allowing a person to throw out the letters,photographs,gifts and so on.The reason is that people who have been hurt from the one who give these things will be reminded of the bad memory.It is necessary to ask someone for keeping those gifts,photograph and letters for you until you get a balance on feeling.
In my opinion,the action of ending a relationship can lead a person to feel depressed more or less,especially with a long-term relationship with someone.Also it is not matter in first week if I feel bad,and even do not want to go out see other people,and keep myself inside home.Usually after a week,I feel much better since time can help me forget a bad memory While we should pay attention if someone still in bad situation after a week,it is necessary to see a doctor or tell friends about you're feeling.For the second section about remove the symbols,it works for me.I really do not like to see any information about someone with whom I break up a relationship.The letters,gifts make me remember this person again.I still remember last time I broke up a relationship with one of my class friend when we was in AEI program; he only stayed in the University of Oregon for a term.We had a good relationship with each other,and sometimes chatting on Facebook,or sending text to each other.Due to he only stays one quarter here; I thought that he couldn’t be with me during the time I study in America,so I just stop chatting with him because I do not willing feel sad after he leaving.However after a few days I thought I liked him,and began to miss him so much.For those reasons we are breaking up a relationship now.After that,I told my friend my experience with him.They drive my out of bad condition as well as delete his picture on my laptop.
"Ending a Relationship" by De Vito,Joseph A.The interpersonal Communication Book,9e.Published by Allyn and bacon,MA.Copyright @ 2001 by Pearson Education.Reprinted by permission of the publisher.
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A Respond to "Ending a Relationship"
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"Ending a Relationship," is an article authored by Joseph A De Vito.In this article Mr.De Vito discussed some strategies on how to handle a break-up in a positive way,methods to avoid negative behaviors,and dealing with the consequence after ending a relationship.
There are plenty of ways to handle the aftermath following a break-up with someone.One of the methods described in Mr.De Vito's article is called "Break the Loneliness-Depression Cycle" .It is a common phenomenon that people tend to get in trouble with loneliness and depression,after ending a relationship with someone close.It is dangerous when a person suffer from loneliness and depression for a long period time,deep depression often requires medical help from the professionals.
Another one presented in the article is called" Removal of Uncomfortable Symbols",which recommends a person to throw out anything that might bring back painful memories,including letters,photographs,gifts and so on.The reason behind this is that people who have been hurt from the one who gave these things will be constantly reminded of the past.It is helpful to ask somebody to take these personal items temporarily for safekeeping,until one is emotionally stable.
From my personal experience,ending a relationship can certainly cause a person to feel depressed,more or less,especially when it involves a long-term relationship.Waiting it out could be the only answer in this situation.It doesn't matter if I feel bad during the first week,I might not care to go out to see other people and simply keep it to myself staying at home.But usually after a week,I would feel much better since time really helps when it comes to healing the wound.While friends could help to look after someone who's in this situation,it is important for the person to know when to seek professional help.
As far as removing the symbols that bring back bad memories,it worked for me.I really do not like to see anything related to someone with whom I just broke up.The letters and gifts would certainly remind me of this person again.I still remember the last time when I broke up with one of my classmate in the AEI program.He only stayed in the University of Oregon for one quarter,we had a good relationship with each other,chatted often on the Facebook and exchanged frequent text messages.
Because he only stayed for one quarter,I didn't think that he could be with me when I go study in America.I just stopped chatting with him one day because I do not wish to be sad after he leaves.However,after a few days I found I really liked him,and began to miss him badly.Due to those reasons we are breaking up now.Afterwards when I told my friend about my problem with him.They helped to take me out of that awkward position,the first thing they insisted was deleting his picture from the desktop on my laptop .
"Ending a Relationship" by De Vito,Joseph A.The interpersonal Communication Book,9e.Published by Allyn and bacon,MA.Copyright @ 2001 by Pearson Education.Reprinted with permission from the publisher.
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