英语翻译Have you ever received a gift that was so clearly not yo

英语翻译
Have you ever received a gift that was so clearly not your taste that you wondered if perhaps it had been handed to you by mistake?Worse,have you ever given a present and watched your friend look as though she had opened the wrong box?Maybe she responded with a polite “Why,thank you,”but you knew you had missed the mark.Why do presents sometimes go wrong?And what do your choices (good and had) reflect about your personal qualities?
Choosing the right is an art,I believe.It calls for empathy－the ability to put yourself into someone else’s feelings as sharply.We’re all able to do this; ih fact,we’ve born with a kind of natural empathy.After the earliest period of childhood,however,it needs to be reinforced（加强）－by our parents,teachers,friends.When it isn’t,we’re not able to understand other people’s feelings as sharply.This can show in the gifts we select,and so can many other emotional（情感的）qualities.
Think back to the presents you’ve given over the past year,the time and effort you put into your selection,how much you spent,yiu thoughts while you were shopping ,and your feelings when the receiver opened the package.Keep in mind that what you choose displays your inner world.Of course,you may express yourself differently with different friends,reaatives,and other people you know.
We live in a society where exchanging presents is an important patt of communicartion.Lgnoring the rtadition won’t make it go away.If you really dislike such a tradnion,tell your friends abead of time.

你是否曾经收到一个礼物,那是你不是很清楚以至你想知道也许把它给你是错误的?更坏的是,你是否曾经送出的礼物然后看你的朋友神情好像她有打开那错误的盒子?也许她以有礼貌回应了 "为什么 ,," 但是你认识你有过错那标志.为什么有时送礼物出毛病?而且关于你的选择 (好与坏) 反映了什么你的个人品质呢?
选择对的是一种艺术,我相信.它叫做感情－能把你自己锐利地放入其他人感觉之内.我们全部能够做到这点;事实上,我们有天生的与一种天然的感情.在早时期的孩童时期之后,然而,它需要加强（由我们的父母老师,朋友的加强）－当它不在的时候,我们无法锐利地了解其他的人的感觉.这能表示我们在礼物选择和如此许多其他的情感品质.
回想你给予礼物的过去的一年内,当你购物的时候和你的感觉接收开那包裹的时候,你花费多少时间和努力放进入你的选择之内.记住你的选择会展示你的内部世界.当然,你可能用不同地方式表达你自己对不同的朋友和其他你知道的人.
我们活在一个交换礼物是沟通的重要部分的社会里.Lgnoring readition 将不使它离开.如果你真的嫌恶如此的传统,就告诉你的朋友时间的 abead?.